Message: Lessons from the Upper
Room pt.2
Text: John 13
II.
John 13:6-11 Holiness
Introduction: In the forests
of northern Europe and Asia lives
little animal called the ermine,
known for his snow-white fur in
winter. He instinctively protects
his white coat against anything that
would soil it. Fur hunters take
advantage of this unusual trait of
the ermine. They don’t set a snare
to catch him, but instead they find
his home, which is usually a cleft
in a rock or a hollow in an old
tree. They smear the entrance and
interior with grime. Then the
hunters set their dogs loose to find
and chase the ermine. The frightened
animal flees toward home but doesn’t
enter because of the filth. Rather
than soil his white coat, he is
trapped by the dogs and captured
while preserving his purity. For the
ermine, purity is more precious than
life. (HGB-Our Daily Bread, April
21, 1997)
Explanation: Once again,
here’s a practical example of what
Jesus meant in Luke 19:39-40…you
remember during Jesus’ triumphal
entry the children and disciples
were shouting praise to God for
Jesus…a little too loudly and
enthusiastically for the religious
leaders liking. Here’s the text.
‘Some of the Pharisees in the crowd
said to Jesus, ‘Teacher, rebuke your
disciples! I tell you, Jesus
replied, if they keep quiet, the
stones will cry out.’
When Christians refuse to live holy
lives…the stones cry out, or in this
case the ermines teach us about
purity, what it means to be holy.
Holiness is a word that doesn’t get
used very often outside the church.
Inside the church there are so many
different expectations of what
holiness is and how it should be
lived out that we are often confused
about it.
Why would we be confused? Because
holiness, your and my holiness
before God, has most often been
taught to us as a list of do’s and
don’ts…am I right?
• Men don’t wear shorts, or
sneakers to church. They do wear
suits and ties.
• Women don’t wear slacks, or
excessive make-up to church. They do
wear dresses and hats.
• Christians don’t go to the
movies, plays cards, smoke, drink,
dances…
• Christians don’t play
sports, watch TV or work on Sundays.
They do attend Sunday school,
morning and evening worship, read
their bibles and pray.
For many, that’s the picture of
holiness they were taught.
One of the problems with this, is
that whatever was on the list of
do’s and don’ts that you were
taught, it’s often that list that
you use to judge, yes, judge the
maturity, or holiness of other
Christians.
• That person isn’t truly
spiritual because he smokes.
• The pastor isn’t truly
spiritual because he never wears a
suit to church.
• That person can’t be a
mature Christian because I saw them
dancing at a wedding reception.
We often judge another persons level
of Christian maturity based on the
Do’s and Don’t’s list we were taught
to believe was the measure of
holiness.
Another huge problem with basing our
standard of holiness on our Do’s and
Don’t’s list is because there are so
many different versions of the list
depending on where you live and what
kind of church you attend.
Please understand that I am not
saying that the things on these
lists are necessarily wrong. But I
am saying that they are not a true
measure of holiness.
Transition: Well then, what
is a true measure of holiness you
may be thinking? Open your Bibles to
John 13:6 (pg. 823 in the church
bible under the seat in front of
you). For here we will see Jesus
teach us that holiness is
surrendering to God’s authority over
your life.
John
13:6-8a Pride blocks Holiness
Read: John 13:6-8a
It’s obvious that Peter had a very
high regard for Jesus. He believed
it was beneath Jesus to wash the
disciple feet. While this may sound
good Peter even felt it was beneath
him to wash the dirty feet of those
in the room…or he would have offered
to do it before Jesus began.
• Remember even a Hebrew
slave couldn’t be forced to wash any
ones dirty feet, that job was give
to the Gentile slaves.
Peter’s words may appear to be
humble but they display the sin of
pride. Why?
1. Peter thinks washing dirty
feet is beneath Jesus’ level of
social status…and beneath his too.
That’s Pride.
2. By saying what he did,
Peter is presuming to know better
than Jesus. Peter is so bold as to
correct Jesus and thought he was
wrong for what he was doing.
That’s Pride.
Pride is a sin we all struggle with.
But truth be told, some of us don’t
struggle with it enough.
• Like Peter, it’s because of
our pride that we often refuse God’s
grace because we feel we are handing
things well on our own.
• It’s because of our pride
that we often look the other way
when Jesus offers cleansing, because
we fail to recognize and acknowledge
our sin.
Transition: Pride blocks our
holiness, our ability to live holy
lives before one another and before
our God. What then, develops
holiness in us?
John
13:8b-10 Surrender leads to
Holiness
Read:
John 13:8b-10
ILL:
There was a man who always had
trouble getting his son to clean his
room. The boy would always agree to
clean the room but then would get
distracted and fail to get it done.
After High School, the boy joined
the Marines. When he came home after
boot camp his dad asked him what he
learned in basic training. Dad, he
said, I have learned what NOW
means.’ (Richard Tow)
What this boy learned and what Peter
came to understand was obedience…
‘now’ obedience. Peter learned to
simply obey Jesus rather than offer
his own personal alternatives.
• Holiness is developed when
we surrender to God’s authority over
our lives.
Peter, I just love him. He gets all
excited and tells Jesus, well, don’t
just wash my feet, pour that whole
basin of water on me! While I
believe he was sincere and
passionate, he also didn’t
understand what Jesus was trying to
teach. And Jesus said as much. So
Jesus begins to explain it so even
Peter can understand it.
First let me tell you what Jesus is
not talking about.
• When Jesus uses the word
‘bath’ he’s not referencing Baptism.
Jesus is not saying that you must be
baptized in order to be clean.
Sidebar: To be clean means to
be saved, to have your sins
forgiven, to have been given eternal
life.
• When Jesus uses the word
‘bath’ he is talking about coming
under his shed blood when he gives
his life on the cross.
• He is saying that once you
have accepted his shed blood poured
out for you on Calvary, your sin is
forgiven and you are clean…you are
sanctified, you are
HOLY.
• It’s a done deal and it
doesn’t need to be done over again.
The writer of the book of Hebrews
reinforces this when he says Heb.
7:26-27 ‘Such a high priest meets
our need—one who is holy, blameless,
pure, set apart from sinners,
exalted above the heavens. Unlike
the other high priests, he does not
need to offer sacrifices day after
day, first for his own sins, and
then for the sins of the people. He
sacrificed for their sins once for
all when he offered himself.’
Holiness first is developed when we
are bathed in the blood of Christ by
faith, our sin is forgiven, we are
saved, we are forever clean before
God and therefore in a right
relationship with Him.
When Jesus tells Peter ‘Unless I
wash your feet, you have no part
with me.’ He wasn’t saying that
Peter could lose his right
relationship with Jesus, his
salvation. Peter was already clean,
forgiven, saved, his relationship
was secure, Jesus said that.
• But there is a difference
between being in ‘relationship’ with
Jesus and being in ‘fellowship’ with
Jesus.
1. Relationship with Jesus has
to do with Positional Holiness. Our
relationship with Jesus gives us
access to God’s presence. It
happened at a particular point in
time when you asked Jesus
into your heart and he forgave your
sins and gave you eternal life.
Read: 1 Cor. 6:11b ‘But you
were washed, you were sanctified,
you were justified in the name of
the Lord Jesus Christ and by the
Spirit of our God’
You were, at the moment you asked
Jesus into your life, sanctified,
made holy.
2. Fellowship with Jesus has to
do with Practical Holiness. We sin
and that sin breaks our fellowship
with Jesus.
Read: Psalm 66:18 ‘If I had
cherished sin in my heart, the Lord
would not have listened’
Practical holiness is confessing our
sin and asking for forgiveness on a
continual basis because we still
sin, we still get our feet dirty as
we walk through life.
Unconfessed sin makes us feel as if
Jesus is somehow distant and we’re
not as close as we ought to
be…broken fellowship.
Read: 1 Thess 4:3 ‘It is God’s will
that you should be sanctified: that
you should avoid sexual immorality’
Surrendering to God and His Word,
regular confession of our sins work
to make us sanctified…in a
practical, day to day way.
• Positional holiness
establishes our access to God
through our relationship with Jesus
Christ.
• Practical holiness
nourishes our fellowship with Jesus.
Does that make sense?
Transition: But, the text
reminds us, not everyone in that
Upper Room was clean, was saved, was
holy.
John
13:11 Rejection makes us sin-full
Read: John 11
Judas never placed his trust, his
faith in Jesus as the Messiah. He
never asked God to forgive his sin.
Outwardly Judas was a disciple, but
inwardly he wasn’t one of Jesus’
own.
• Judas’ feet were washed by
Jesus as an offering of what could
be.
• The other disciples feet
were washed by Jesus as a
declaration of what already was.
Conclusion
What is Personal Holiness and why is
it important to the Christian life?
• We don’t have a dress code
here at CBC…and I’m glad.
• We don’t have a code of
Christian conduct we all are
required to sign here at CBC…and I’m
glad.
We don’t have them because keeping
to a code other than Scripture won’t
make us holy. We could keep every do
and don’t on the list and still end
up like Judas…a disciple of Jesus
Christ on the outside but heading
for Hell on the inside.
Instead let me ask…have you
surrendered to God’s authority over
your life?
• Have you been to Jesus and
asked him to cleanse you of your
sin?
• Are you submitting to the
Word and Will of God?
Another aspect of practical holiness
is consecration, that’s separation
or being set apart from sin in the
world and being set apart to God for
His good works.
• Are you consecrated to God,
set apart for Him?
Challenge
I stand before you as one who
struggles with holiness.
But I also stand before you as one
who is willing to renew my desire to
be holy. While I know the struggle
ahead, I know God is bigger than
anything I will face.
I don’t do this often, but this
morning, right now, I invite you to
come and kneel at the steps to the
platform for a special time of
prayer, of confession of sin and
declaration of your intent to
surrender to the authority of God
over your life.
Friends, you are not alone…I am
already here.
And as we pray, we will not be
lifting up just ourselves in prayer,
but those beside us as well.
Don’t come forward to impress anyone
or because you think someone expects
you to. Come because God is nudging
you to be holy.