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Romans 14 Introduction Part 2

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Sermon Title: 'Who really is the weaker and stronger brother'?       Sermon Text: Introduction to Rom. 14 pt.2

II. Who Really is the 'weaker' and 'stronger' brother?

ILL: In the 1924 Olympics Eric Liddell refused to run a qualifying race on Sunday, even though failure to do so would eliminate him from competition. He believed that to run on Sunday violated the commandment to keep the Sabbath day holy. Was he right or wrong in his decision?

 Some Christians told him he was honoring God by his decision while others thought him a legalist and immature in his faith and told him he should run. the question could be asked, was Eric Liddell a 'weaker' or 'stronger' brother?

Trans: That is the question we will examine today. Who is the weaker and stronger brother in Rom. 14?

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APP: So what do we do when there are differences of opinion among God's people in a local church over issues of indifference, issues not strictly prohibited nor strictly prescribed? I have found two general answers.

1. Understand the nature of the weaker brother.
 -Is he/she a judgmental weaker brother who is not interested in maturing in their faith and knowledge. Who is not tempted to sin by what you do or don't do, who just doesn't like what you are doing it?

 If this is the case, then I believe you are not obligated to withhold the exercise of your liberty because they are being hypocritical, and pharisaic.
(Mt. 15:11-12,14)

 It is not what enters in to the mouth that defiles the man, but what proceeds out of the mouth, this defiles the man. Then the disciples came and said to Him, (Jesus) Do you know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this statement? Jesus said Let them alone they are blind guides of the blind. And if a blind man guides a blind man, both will fall into a pit.

 -Is he/she a legitimate or endangered weaker brother who honestly believes what you are doing is a sin. And who will be tempted to do that which is sin to them because they see or know you are doing it.

 If this is the case, then you don't do it. Paul said we are to do nothing to cause our brother to stumble. We are not to allow our liberty to be a stumbling block to our brother / sister.

2. Educate the weaker brother in love.
 -1 Cor. 8, 9, Rom. 14, 15 and Gal. 5 all speak to this issue. Some have knowledge of their liberty and some do not. Since we are free for the Truth of God's Word, those who have the knowledge of their  liberty in Christ are responsible to teach those who do not have knowledge of their liberty in Christ.

 However,  knowledge is not of primary concern. Love is. 1 Cor. 8:1 says knowledge puffs up or makes arrogant. He is saying that we can  talk to someone in a prideful and arrogant way, with the right knowledge and do more harm than good.

 Paul continue and says love edifies or builds another up in their faith. It is love that is of greatest importance. Your love, as demonstrated by  withholding your liberty to do or not do something that will offend a legitimate weaker brother, will do more than just telling him the truth about the issue. It will show them that they are more important to you than any liberty you may have. It will show them the love of God in action.

Conclusion:
 How far do we go in applying this? If we fully apply this doesn't it mean that we will be controlled by the narrowest, judgmental Christian in the church? Won't it be possible for people with disordered personalities to dominate the church?

ILL: Kent Huges gives this illustration. A self-conscious pious Christian grimly said to him that Scripture nowhere records that Jesus smiled of laughed and he wanted him to know that godly people like himself followed suit.

 Now the absurdity of this argument from silence is seen if you make a list of other things that Scripture never records Jesus doing? We are not called to uncritical, indiscriminate limitations of our freedom.Voluntary limiting of our freedom is not meant to subject us to the prejudices of weaker, judgmental Christians who are persistent in sub-biblical legalism.

 Many people in the church believe that they were saved by grace but then feel like their life of devotion and holiness has to be marked by some adherence to rules for 'right' behavior. And for many these man made rules become the litmus test for true, mature Christianity.

 Understand we don't want to walk into unnecessary temptation but sometimes these rules for proper behavior which may not be biblically based, become a form of works righteousness.

 Understand we want to learn self control but self control can't be learned when it is replaced by a set of rigid prohibitions.

 Without meaning to these Christians are actually undermining the Gospel of Grace.

 If we can enjoy an activity, or a product that's within the guidelines of Scripture we are to do so as an expression of thankfulness to God who gave it. As long as our liberty doesn't cause anyone to stumble.

 Love takes precedence over liberty..always.

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                               Issue              Evaluation                          Conclusion                              Possible Danger

1. Judgmental         MOVIES        It is wrong for                     Everyone who                           Critical of other
    Weaker                                      everyone                           participates is                             Christians who
    Brother                                                                                 guilty of sin                                  don't agree.

2. Endangered         MOVIES       Possibly wrong                     It is not wrong                             Participation
    Weaker                                        for him                                for every                                  w/o full freedom
     Brother                                                                                   Christian                                      of conscience

3. Inconsiderate     MOVIES     -Believes it is                           Believes that the                                -Can believe
    Stronger                                     not sin for him                        same thing can                                   the Mature
    Brother                                      but may choose                       be sin for one                                   Stronger brother
                                                      not to                                       Believer and not                              would be 'more
                                                      participate                              sin for the other.                                spiritual' if he
                                                 -Believes it is                                                                                       would only limit
                                                  not sin for him                                                                                         his liberty.
                                                  and decides to                                                                                    -Causes the
                                                  do it no matter                                                                                     Endangered
                                                   what                                                                                                 weaker brother
                                                                                                                                                               to stumble
                                                                                                                                                       -Abuses his liberty

4. Mature          MOVIES         Believes he has                             It is okay for                                -Succumbing to
    Stronger                                freedom to                                      him but may                                  the judgmental
    Brother                                   participate                                      be sin for                                       weaker brother
                                                                                                            others

Correct Biblical Attitude      1 Cor. 9, Gal:5, Rom. 14

True Weaker Brother:    I don't have that freedom but I realize it's okay for you.

True Stronger Brother:   I have that freedom, but because of our relationship, I choose not to participate.

True Stumbling Block: Watching or knowing someone else is doing something you feel is a sin and then choosing to do it
                                        yourself.

Untrue Stumbling Block: Watching or knowing someone else is doing something you believe is a sin but you don't do it
                                          yourself, you just don't like them doing it.